What is sexy? Does that question conjure up images of thin, well toned, barely clad women? That's what society has influenced us to think and to believe, but what is it really? We're lead to believe that it's about how we look. I asked if I was sexy and I was told yes. I asked what made me sexy and the list he gave included things I never thought about. Things that are who I am, not how I look. Then he asked, "don't you understand that?" I had to answer no. I'd never thought about or considered what makes someone sexy is their mind, their heart, the kind things they do. I'd been drinking the stereotypical cool-aid of the media, thinking that sexy was about being thin, having long hair and big boobs. Go ahead and laugh, but the next time you're standing in a grocery store checkout line look at the magazines and tell me that's what sexy is portrayed as. I've struggled with my body image for years, and while I think I'm w